Living – Page 2 – the Conversations 256

15 May

Get Rid Of These Approval Seeking Behaviours!

Naks0 CommentsLife, Living, Mental wellness

Are approval and validation the same thing? Both of these stem out of a lack of self-worth, but the locus of activity is in opposite directions in both cases. Approval Seeking (AS) focuses on modifying your own behavior, while Validation Seeking (VS) puts the obligation of agreeing with you on external agents. For example, with the same reply: A person with AS will modify her/his answer so that people like it. A person with VS will post whatever the f*** they want, and expect the community to like it. And when the community doesn't, they get p!ssed off with the…

10 May

Why it is okay to say “I Do Not Know”

Naks0 CommentsLife, Living, Pockets of Wisdom

A little advice for those who don't have it quite figured out. “It’s okay to not know everything. Curiosity is a beautiful thing.”_ M.H.N Life is not a solved puzzle. You don’t reach a certain age, a certain social status, a certain position in your career, and suddenly have all the answers. There isn’t a secret potion, a lucky token, or even a prayer that will change the course of your life with a snap of your fingers. But you can find comfort in this: You’re not alone. No one has all the answers. No one knows what he or…

08 May

When Mothers Day Looks Different…

Naks11 CommentsLife, Living

Moms are special. On this day, we pause to think about one of the great gifts we have received from God, our moms. This is the person who brought us into the world. But for many, Mother’s Day no longer means the same thing it once did. Feelings of gratitude have turned to grief. Celebration is replaced with isolation. For those who’ve lost a mother, today is difficult. We see you. We stand with you. If you have a friend who has suffered the loss of their own beloved mom, don’t forget about them today. A simple text saying, “I’m…

21 Mar

On True Beauty

Brand Contributor0 CommentsLiving

I like people who have a sense of individuality. I love expression and anything awkward and imperfect because that's natural and that's real. Show yourself, do not pretend otherwise. I think it's beautiful the way you sparkle when you talk about the things you love. And I like it when you disseminate when you open up and dare to be completely honest, and when you laugh at the smallest things and then look into my eyes. When you are yourself, and show me who you are. I'm here, appreciating this moment. All I can do is look around, looking at…

09 May

To Our Moms(…a collection of short stories…)

Naks0 CommentsLiving

“..I have so many dreams of my own, and I remember things from my childhood, from when I was a girl and a young woman, and I haven't forgotten a thing. So why did we think of Mom as a mom from the very beginning? She didn't have the opportunity to pursue her dreams, and all by herself, faced everything the era dealt her, poverty and sadness, and she couldn't do anything about her very bad lot in life other than suffer through it and get beyond it and live her life to the very best of her ability, giving…

31 Mar

Saying Goodbye To The C256…

Naks0 CommentsLiving

Wait... You dropped everything and ran here right? Okay… Here goes; But hold on... Wait! You thought I was quitting the Conversations 256? Like for real? Psyche!!!!! Lies!! All lies!!! I’m so sorry for any heart attacks I might have caused but today is the one-day I can actually be intentionally dishonest and not feel bad about it so of course, I had to jump on the April Fools bandwagon! Did I fool you? Hahahahahahahaha What fun! Anyway, on a serious note. Last month was Women’s month so theC256 launched a series to take some notes and highlight women that…

12 Mar

You Are Not Alone; Letters To Our Younger Selves…

C256 Member4 CommentsLetters To Self, Living

You are not alone. You are not the only one who feels this way– not by a long shot. Everyone feels insecure or scared or worried or like they’re not enough at some point. We all just hide it from everyone else. It’s okay to feel that way. Talk about it with someone else or with yourself through a letter. It’s the first step to feeling better. We all have times in our past which are memorable for being painful and difficult (UNLESS YOU'VE LIVED UNDER A ROCK.) But what if you could go back in time and show that…

01 Dec

What We Need To Remember on World AIDS Day.

Naks0 CommentsLiving

World AIDS day is celebrated on December 1 every year since 1988. There are few things I felt like we should collectively remind ourselves today. First, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. HIV isn’t some kind of karmic punishment. It is a virus that is communicable and therefore travels between people. Certain types of activities may increase your risks, but these still don’t make you “responsible” for being sick. We wouldn’t blame a diabetic for their diabetes. ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE SYMPTOMS. Being HIV positive today doesn’t look like the horrible AIDS deaths that have been so heavily imprinted in…

15 Oct

Small Reminders & Big Announcements

Naks0 CommentsLiving

Been a minute yeah? But guess what? I’m back with very good news!!! Ahhhhh (mega screams) I am so excited!!!! But first, small reminders; I came across some soul inspiring beauty that I wanted to share. I hope you listen to it everyday! I hope you remind yourself of these things everyday. Then…. DRUM ROLL!!!!! Big Big announcement!!! The Conversations 256 has a new home! It’s here! It’s finally here! Thank you so much for waiting and being patient with me. I stopped posting like three months ago because I was building a wonderful home for us from scratch by…

05 Aug

Meet Ronny: TheC256Community

C256 MemberLiving

Ronny is a phenomenal writer and singer.He has traveled the world sharing his talents on the world's biggest stages.He is also a member of theC256 Community. Listen in as Ronny shares what this space means to him, how the C256 inspires him and why he thinks you should subscribe immediately!! The C256 Podcast officially launched on the 1st of August. Subscribe for more... Everyday I will be sharing with you different voices from our Community. Listen in as they tell YOU why the C256 is worth following and subscribing to and how it has impacted them and their journey.The C256…

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